People 2.0: «Do you like being humiliated?» or «Is communication on the Internet possible without insults and conflicts?»
"It is possible, and not only in the “Internet”, but with the use of “non-conflict” social media - an alternative solution to popular social media!"
Humiliation of personality - this is the main problem of man! A reasonable man by nature does not tolerate personal humiliation! Do you agree? The «Internet» of the future is a social media, where there should be no conflicts, since people, developing conflict-free thinking, become truly adults in the worldview and do not insult each other. Otherwise, the «Internet» at the legislative level will be strictly regulated and will be available only to persons who have reached the age of 21!
Boris Belevtsov - author and developer of "non-conflict"
social media and «Conflict-Free Thinking™»
Why do people need thinking that promotes worldview maturation, which affects the improvement of relationships?
A person, thanks to more balanced and analytical reasoning, will learn not to insult or humiliate people around; will avoid conflicts in the family, as a result, the number of divorces decreases; will improve the quality of relationships with others.
A person struggling with “adolescence” in himself and becoming truly adult in his worldview will make himself more stress-resistant in adult life, which will allow him to preserve the “psyche” of himself and others; a person will be more restrained towards others, patient and hardy, respectively, will be easier to overcome life's problems.
A person, developing his thinking, that is, his analytical mind, will always look for alternative solutions to problems; a person will learn to set priorities in life, become more focused on achieving goals and will know exactly what he wants. As a result, a person will be more successful in his career; people will treat such a person well, all doors will be open for such a person. And most importantly, a person will make fewer mistakes in life and, having revealed his potential and not wasting time in vain, he will be able to fulfill his potential and live a happier life!
The reason for the most humiliations - unconscious insults. We don't understand that we insult other people!
The first reaction that every person who develops conflict-free thinking will face is the shock of how often we insult each other in everyday life! The cause of the majority of the humiliation of unconscious abuse. People don't understand that they insult others. Force action generates a force of resistance. Unconscious insults lead to retaliatory insults, all sorts of grudges, domestic conflicts or even a break in relations. Using the system of colored blocksigns «Conflict-Free Thinking™»
in specialized, so-called "Non-conflict"
social media users instead of retaliatory insults expose each other colored blocksigns.
Discussing the exposed block signs and causes of conflict, users learn about 20 concepts of insults, as well as whether these insults are unconscious, primary or retaliatory. As a result, in the process of "hot" discussions formed thinking that can prevent conflicts.
Skeptical people may argue that it is impossible to avoid conflict.Yes, it is impossible to absolutely avoid conflict situations, but it is possible to influence the causes of their occurrence. There are petty quarrels that do not leave a negative in a person’s soul, and it happens that they change their fate when a person who has not coped with stress, because of a small quarrel will commit a crime and, as a result, will receive a criminal sentence!
NOTE In particular, the development of conflict-free thinking is recommended for both ordinary people and people who make management decisions: businessmen, representatives of the upper and middle class, top management of large companies, politicians and civil servants, journalists and media workers.
Attention! Unconscious insults committed by you public in your environment are the cause of global conflicts and international warriors!
A little about «Conflict-Free Thinking™» Technology
Start of development in 2015. The basis of the technology is the “conflict-free” eco-environment (a profile-segmented communication tool, including a dating service and an ad service)
, in which people, communicating with each other, develop conflict-free thinking. For this purpose, specialized communication tools have been developed that characterize groups of people united by a single value system or common interests. (in perspective over 320 resources!)
The development of conflict-free thinking and the fight against the "teenage" worldview
Tasks of technology:
- improving good relationships and reducing conflicts;
- development of conflict-free thinking and the fight against the "teenage" worldview in adults.
The tools of technology:
- «Brand-selectivity» - providing users with a choice of special means of pre-developed social media for groups of people united by a common value system;
- «Personal socially significant registration filter» - a resource entry threshold for associating like-minded people and an entry barrier for filtering out anonymous users and non-adherents;
- «Colored blocksigns system» - development of conflict-free thinking; the fight against the "teenage" worldview in adults; user self-regulation inside the resource (standard moderation is missing or minimized!).
For many people, freedom of speech is freedom of insults!
The problem of intersection of people with extremely opposite views
To solve this problem, each «non-conflict» social media is specially developed taking into account a group of people of a particular value system. This minimizes the intersection of people with sharply opposing views or beliefs in one place. Such people often try to impose their point of view on each other in a rigid form. In this case, as a rule, a person in a value judgment, hiding behind the freedom of speech, gives an assessment of an offensive nature. That is, under "freedom" of speech justifies only "freedom" to insult and humiliate others.
Anonymous users with bad intentions and monitoring inappropriate behavior
Users, using the system of colored blocksigns «Conflict-Free Thinking™»
in each «non-conflict»
social media, independently carry out public monitoring of inappropriate behaviousers. With this system, everyone has the opportunity to notify their environment and draw attention to serious offenses or to socially significant problems.
So that adolescents do not fall under the bad influence of peers or anonymous users with bad intentions, in each «non-conflict»
social media, a small subscription fee is specially introduced, which, when registering an account, technically filters out all anonymous users. Due to the cost-effective model completely eliminates the ability to create fake accounts, and because of the growth of personal responsibility of each user, the risks of online fraud are reduced, the risks of distribution of prohibited content, cyber-bullying attempts are reduced, juvenile suicide propaganda, recruitment to terrorist organizations, totalitarian sects and destructive cults. If, nevertheless, will be suspicious actions with regard to minors are noted, then again, using the system of colored blocksigns under the monitoring of respectable users, parents or acquaintances will be notified of what is happening, which will protect adolescents from problems, and parents from shocks.
NOTE In order to promote conflict-free thinking in society, the subscription fee will be spent on expensive advertising in the media, where each user will become a co-investor of the future conflict-free society!
Anonymous, extremists, swindlers and other "inadequate".
Do not buy our accounts!
Author and developer informs:
"«Non-conflict» social media are designed exclusively for transparent and open communication, and if you are a conflicted person, anonymous with bad intentions or plan to carry out extremist or fraudulent actions, then you are not recommended to purchase an account
and not recommended to register
in non-conflict social media
! Your illegal actions will become obvious to other users who, using the colored blocksigns system, will block your account without a refund and will attract the attention of the media and, worse for you, law enforcement!
Methods of development of conflict-free thinking
The development of conflict-free thinking occurs through the awareness of the essence of insults. In the system of colored blocksigns, where each color of five blocksigns corresponds to a certain group of insults, for example:
INSULTING A PERSON'S PERSONALITY
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the orange blocksign:
- insult based on neglect of a person's personality;
- offensive-humiliating a dirty words;
- insult based on humiliating comparison with something and / or anyone;
- insult based on humiliating distortion of a person’s own name;
- insult based on «go to the person»;
- insult by unclaimed opinion / judgment;
- insult by unwarranted distrust;
- insult by demonstrating of intellectual superiority;
- insult by arrogant - haughty attitude;
- insult by «mockery»;
- insult by «status» (demonstration of social superiority);
- insult by knowingly false libelous information (damage to reputation);
- offensive remarks against older people.
EXTREME INSULTS AND HUMAN SECURITY MONITORING
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the black blocksign:
- insult of religion;
- insult based on ethnic differences;
- insult based on physiological features;
- recruitment attempt to terrorist organizations, totalitarian sects and destructive cults;
- suspicion of online fraud;
- cyberbullying (Internet harassment);
- inducement to commit suicide;
- distribution of fake news;
- panic spread;
- attempt to create fake accounts;
- distribution of photo and video materials prohibited by law;
INSULTS OF FEMALE DIGNITY
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the pink blocksign:
- Insult of female dignity;
- insult using profanity in speech;
- insult with unsubstantiated remarks;
- insult by non-constructive criticism;
- insult with unjustified raising of voice;
INSULTS OF MALE DIGNITY
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the blue blocksign:
- Insult of male dignity;
NOTE Attention! If a man clearly shows signs of a teenage worldview, a woman is strictly forbidden to say the following phrases in a man’s face: "You behave like a child! ... It's some kind of kindergarten! ... You are like a little boy!... You are like a little girl!..." In such cases, so that because of the strongest resentment of an unstable male-«teenager» the situation does not develop into domestic violence against a woman, you just need to say or read literally a specific sign of a teenage worldview for subsequent discussion!
- insult with unsubstantiated remarks;
- insult by non-constructive criticism;
- insult with unjustified raising of voice;
Delving into the meanings of insults, in the process of communication, users begin to realize what exactly offends and why it should not be done.
An adult with a “teenage” worldview is a potentially “dishonest” person!
Conflicts due to the fact thatadults have a “teenage” worldview.
I draw your attention to the reason for most of the problems in people's lives - the presence of "teenage" worldview in adults! People, as it were, do not grow up and remain children throughout their lives. This is more true for men than women. Often a woman, as a rule, turns out to be dependent on a man with a “teenage” worldview. I must apologize in advance to those whom this thesis can offend, but the problem remains - an adult with an "teenage" worldview - a potentially dishonest person with a guarantee to complicate themselves and others life!
Signs of teenage worldview
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the green blocksign:
1 fanaticism and any of its manifestations: ideological, political, national, religious, sports, etc., except for a balanced desire to be a professional (in his craft, a person to achieve a high competitive level must be a little «fanatic» of his business, but not literally!);
2 excessive sense of self-importance
; person constantly brags; a person is measured by the size of something with someone; a person seeks to look «cool» in the eyes of others; a person seeks to seem something that is not, for example, a professional, misleading others; person feels hidden envy for someone else's success;
3 a person is not able to admit their own mistakes
— the main thing for a person only at any cost to «save face» or «not to fall face in the mud»;
4 a person is absolutely immune to alternative points of view
; a person does not listen, and if he listens, he does not hear or hears only what he wants to hear, just as he sees only what he wants to see;
5 a person has an 100% conviction in his own rightness
and obsession with his own position; a person on many issues, not owning the topic of discussion, does not even suspect that he does not understand; in the course of a conversation, truly adults in the worldview discuss, and adults with a child's psyche insult each other and quarrel;
NOTE A truly adult person admits a maximum of 90% of conviction in his own rightness, and the remaining 10% is subjected to analysis and, rechecking the information, admits that he could be wrong!
6 a person does not seek to be balanced in value judgments
7 a person expresses an own opinion / value judgment based on conjectures
, not real facts and / or knowledge; a person draws conclusions in value judgments, subjecting everything to doubts
on the based on unverified information from one unreliable source, in contrast to a person with an adult worldview, who draws conclusions in value judgments, subjecting everything to analysis
, based on verified information from reliable 4-5 sources informationreferring to real experts — specialists in a particular field;
8 a person expresses an own opinion / value judgment on the basis of false conclusions on a principle from particular to general
, for example:
NOTE In value judgments, it is recommended to divide people not into black and white and not into rich and poor, but to divide society into only two categories of people: decent people (with order in their heads!) and indecent / dishonest people (lack of order in their heads!), where a decent person is truly adult in his worldview, and indecent is usually an adult with a teenage worldview or, what worse for society, an adult with a child's psyche!
9 a person does not realize that he is insulting others
- if one COP is violent, then all cops are violent;
- if one African-American is a drug addict and a criminal, then all African-Americans are drug addicts and criminals;
- if one Russian is a bandit, a drunkard and a rowdy, which means all Russians are like that;
- if one banker robbed his bank and withdrew money to offshore, then all bankers robbed their banks;
- if one official is a corrupt official and a bribe taker, then all officials are corrupt;
- if one politician is a talker and is not responsible for his words, then all politicians are not responsible for their words;
- if one journalist is corrupt, then all journalists are the same;
- if one entrepreneur is a fraudster, then all entrepreneurs are fraudsters;
- if one rich man is a loafer and does nothing, because he has a lot of money, which means everyone who has a lot of money does nothing;
- if one poor person is a loafer, does nothing and therefore has no money, then everyone who has little money does not do anything and loafers, etc.;
10 a person uses insults and ridicule
, as a way of his own exaltation by humiliating others;
11 a person does not have real friends
because of the loss or lack of trust due to unreliability due to the presence of a child's psyche in an adult (a person avoids taking on the obligation of complicity in other people's lives, for example, in solving friends' problems, both insignificant and serious!)
12 a person does not care about the fate of relatives, friends
, acquaintances; he is indifferent to them; he is not interested in what they do, how they live — a person just doesn't care about them;
13 a person is not a team player
; in the worldview there is absolutely no commitment to the team, working as a team, after receiving momentary benefits here and now as a result of the work of the whole team, forgetting about obligations to other members of the team, easily leaves it; a person does not realize that life is always a team game!;
14 a person does not attach any importance to his own self-organization, self-development, purposefulness
; a person does not form an individual from himself; a person does not overcome himself and does not force himself to study, go in for sports, work, etc.; a person does not to strive to become a professional in something, in any field;
15 a person does not strive for independence
; a person avoids making responsible decisions; a person does not strive to be a leader in his own life, and not a follower; a person constantly needs support; a person demonstrates helplessness and self-doubt;
16 a person is not able to prioritize in life
17 a person focuses on the small and insignificant things in his life
, which he attaches great importance to, as a result, inflates a big problem out of trifles, and does not attach any importance to really serious things in life at all;
18 a person does not plan his life
for more than 7 days; does not seek career growth due to not wanting to take responsibility for decision making;
a person wants not to burden themselves with obligations so that life was simpler and easier, but in reality life becomes neither simpler nor easier;
19 a person is not able to focus on self-realization in order to reveal his own potential in life
20 a person does not choose his future profession
, others decide for him, first parents, then heads; a person doesn't know what to do in life and in his free time, he doesn't care what to do;
a person who is already working does not strive to be a professional (the pursuit of professionalism is the pursuit of «maturity» in the worldview)
22 a person does not gain life experience
, from year to year he has all the same knowledge at the same level and is not added;
23 a person runs away from problems
, instead of searching for ways to solve them by means of willful overcoming of oneself over oneself;
24 a person constantly complains about discomfort
, life, neighbors, the boss, the president, the state, the «system», everyone owes him, everyone around is to blame, and he is not, at the same time a person tries to remove responsibility from himself even for his personal fate as much as possible;
25 a person does not have any patience
, not to mention long-term patience; it is a priority for a person to solve his own minor problem here and now;
26 mood variability depending, for example, on “bad” weather or hunger (a person is not able to control himself!)
27 a person is not able to focus on the «concrete things» (on a specific thought; issue or task)
; a person does not try to understand the essence of the problem; a person himself does not know what he wants, to the question «What do you want?» the person does not know the answer, is silent, this question of the person in a dead end; in the priority, the person sees the «form», but not the «content»; lives by the principle «I already know everything!» (An «adult» learns all his life, and «child» already knows everything!)
NOTE The principle «Priority of form over content» means that a person puts the form more important than the content, for example:
28 a person strives for anonymity
- in form, a person is a patriot in words, but in content - there is no love for the Motherland, except for the thirst for profit;
- in form - friendship, but not in content: it seems like we are friends and communicate, for decades, have parties and fun together, we trust each other, we rely on each other, and if one of us has a problem, no one will be around!;
- in form - a person seems to work a lot, seems to go to work every day, but in fact the effect of his work is either zero or negligible;
- in form - a social network, and in content - exclusively just a network: sociality is absent for the reason that basically everyone does not care about each other;
- in form, a person in appearance looks like an adult, and in terms of internal content - a child;
on the Internet, so as not to be responsible for their words and actions;
29 a person uses profanity
always, everywhere and inappropriate, uses profanity in front of women, children and strangers;
30 a person uploads
on the network and sends unreliable friends photos and video materials that are a discrediting nature and damage his/her own reputation (for example, being photographed naked!)
31 a person has a random circle of acquaintances
, occupations, at the heart of building relationships as lucky, that is, «Russian roulette»
a person does not realize such a thing as the neglect of the personality of another person (At the heart of most conflicts is the attitude towards people as to something insignificant. The supreme form of neglecting a person’s personality is his murder!)
extreme states: a person is an egoist and / or an egocentric (The child’s psyche is focused on solving exclusively their own problems and on obtaining exclusively their own benefits, in contrast to the psyche of the parental worldview of a truly adult person, which is aimed at solving the problems of children and the self-sacrificing return of benefits to children.)
extreme states: a person is or pessimist or optimist
; a person does not seek to be balanced in their judgments, thereby misleading others;
35 a person does not realize that there are things that a person cannot influence
: natural external data in women, passing youth, weather change, etc.;
36 a person does not realize that mistakes in the past are the capital of knowledge in the future
, that is, everything that can be corrected is not a mistake!;
extreme states: a person has an overstated self-esteem
or an underestimated self-esteem
NOTE A person with an inflated self-esteem in the eyes of others looks confident, which allows him, without having talent, professional knowledge and experience, to achieve significant results in life. Much worse is the situation with low self-esteem, when a person with talent, professional knowledge and experience does not make efforts to build their own career, as a result, their place in society is occupied by a person with an inflated self-esteem!
extreme states: excessive overeating
leading to obesity; excessive malnutrition
leading to anorexia;
39 a person fights on the street
; a person is the instigator of domestic violence (uses beatings as a way to exalt himself by humiliating a person!);
40 a person characterized by submissive thoughtless diligence and mindless implementation («Go hit him!» — The man went and hit him!);
41 a person smokes cigarettes (people are truly adults do not smoke!)
; alcohol without any reason
, without company alone, without restrictions and control, intoxicated is not able to control itself, is aggressive (an adult with a child’s psyche is more prone to be scared by the outside world, as a result, the response is aggression!)
; a person uses narcotic substances of any effect
in order to compensate for the lack of masculinity insecure man living in urban conditions seeks to acquire pneumatic, gas, traumatic, and hunting weapons
without a subsequent purpose to go hunting (including for shooting jars)
43 a person is not able to think ahead in order to prevent accidents
; does not manage security risks; does not think about death and does not realize that each of us is temporarily in this world;
44 a person litters on the street
; throws garbage past a dumpster; throws papers out of the car window; after picnics leaves plastic, glass bottles, unquenched bonfires that lead to large-scale forest fires; a person spits on the street;
45 a person makes a tattoo for himself/herself
, which he/she will regret in the future;
NOTE It will be more difficult for a girl with tattoos to get married; it will be more difficult for a girl with tattoos to find a truly adult person to create a strong family; it will be more difficult for a person with tattoos to get a job and build a career. The presence of tattoos in a person, as a rule, negatively affects his/her life!
a person does not realize that, unlike the spiritual, the material world is a solution to the security issues of the physical body
, that is, a solution to the issues of personal security, the security of his family, kind, tribe, ethnic group, state, humanity in General, namely, the issues of the organization of a roof over head, production of food, water, heat, transport, information, communication, education, medicine and entertainment*
NOTE «Entertainment» here is a psychological relief and refers to the solution of issues of safety of psychological health of a person.
* There are always three factors at the heart of a person's decision making:
1. personal safety issues;
2. «save face» (this factor reveals in a person signs of a teenage worldview!);
3. in the power of forced decisions, depending on the first and second factors**.
** The power of action gives rise to the power of reaction! A person can provoke undesirable actions against himself by plunging an opponent into the power of forced decisions. If a person solves the issues of personal security, the safety of his family, kind, tribe, state at the expense of the safety issues of the family of another person, his tribe, kind, state, then in this case the opposite party is at the mercy of forced decisions and is forced to exert pressure in response, for example, by using force!
47 a person does not perceive earnings as a reward for creative work and contribution to solving issues of General security (roof over your head, food, water, heat, information, transport, education, medicine, entertainment)
48 a person spends money solely on himself
, in the eyes of others it looks like greed and stinginess, sees in the shopping «entertainment and toys», rather than professional tools for solving everyday needs (senseless wastefulness, not economic rationality)
49 a person strives here and now to get momentary benefits
, as a rule, to solve his own problem at the expense of another person;
50 a person does not care where the products
on the shelves in stores come from; a person does not care that behind each product is the fate of a person who was not afraid to assume the risks and obligations of organizing the production of a particular product or service; who was not afraid to spend his own money on solving other people's safety issues (roof over his head, food, water, heat, transport, information, education, medicine, entertainment); who was not afraid to spend his strength, knowledge, time, health, patience, and in case of failure, unprofitability (will not cover production costs)
and bankruptcy, he and his family will lose everything and probably will still owe the Banks;
a man with a «teenage» worldview does not perceive a woman as a person
, perceives her as a «toy», played with and abandoned (one of the causes of divorce and domestic conflicts!)
52 a person aspires to criminal actions
, from minor offenses to the organization of criminal groups, corruption and fraudulent schemes; a person seeks here and now to get "easy" money in order to buy for himself a "sweet life" and to prove to others his illusory social significance;
53 a person is not able to understand that people do not choose at birth:
(poor / rich);
their mental abilities;
their talent or lack of it;
REPROACH, BLAME, AND EVEN MORE SO TO HUMILIATE A PERSON BECAUSE OF THIS YOU CAN NOT!
- their skin color;
- their nationality;
- their sex;
- their physiology;
- their parents;
- their birthplace;
- their social status
ATTENTION! «TEENAGE WORLDVIEW» — THE TRUE CAUSES OF RACISM, FACISM, ANTI-SEMITISM, CHAUVINISM, AMERICANOPHOBIA, RUSSOPHOBIA, XENOPHOBIA, ETC.!
NOTE Users using the color blocksign system «Conflict-free thinking™» can technically independently add signs of a teenage worldview for General consideration and discussion within the resource!
To combat teenage worldview in the system of color blocksigns, there is the most important - the "green" blocksign. For example, depending on the situation, parents, acquaintances or even peers, exposing the "green" blocksigns, where more than 40 signs of a teenage worldview
are determined, pointing to the behavior inherent in adolescence, automatically form the thinking of adult person. Through awareness of the signs of "adolescence"
, a person is an independent growing up and ideological maturation, develops self-criticism, responsibility and adequacy, contributing to a sense of purpose. Obviously, a purposeful person will achieve greater success in life than the "child"!
Let's look at examples of why it is necessary to fight the "teenage" worldview in the process of education:
NOTE More detail: signs of teenage worldview.
I marry an adult "child." Suddenly I'm lucky and he will not leave me!
- A girl of 18 years old marries a young man of the same age. A young man with a teenage mindset. Children are born. Faced with domestic problems due to unawareness and the "immaturity" of a young man, the marriage breaks up. The young man as "child" running away from problems. As a result, abandoned children, crippled fate. If the marriage does not break up, then the family is doomed to live an unhappy life in poverty due to the lack of desire of the young man to improve the material condition, in constant household scandals, to escape from reality - alcohol in unlimited quantities, drugs and crime.
If the girl had the opportunity to immediately understand and ”read adolescence” in the guy, she would choose another, more worthy candidate, and has lived a happier life! Developing conflict-free thinking, any girl, knowing the signs of a teenage worldview, will learn to easily identify and define “teenage” in a peer and not only. Moreover, such a girl will be able to make "grow up" in the future to any man and properly raise their children;
I am an adult "child" - I will not go to jail!
- A person with a “teenage” worldview is likely to go to a rash act, a crime and get a criminal sentence, than will “please” relatives! All crimes are committed only by people with a teenage worldview-the average age of 14-16 years!;
Blogger is free to swear obscenities, or how to reduce views
- A well-known, popular and talented blogger with "teenage" worldview, swearing obscenities on the air of his channel, does not understand that, firstly, offends the neglect of the personality of his audience, and, secondly, reduces his audience and views, as such a video with socially significant or entertainment content is not recommended for viewing neither parents nor friends. If a blogger has 2-4 million views per video, which could be 10-15 million or more, which would increase his earnings by 5-6 times, respect and popularity.
Businessmen and owners, as well as management
- If you are a businessman and your partner with a “teenage” worldview, he is likely to fail you seriously by destroying your business. Your gigantic, sometimes insurmountable work on the organization of your own business, your personally invested money, perhaps the last, perhaps borrowed, your time, energy, labor, your patience, risks - and all in vain! You were let down by a “teenager” you couldn’t identify in your partner. The same applies to the situation when the owner of the company hires "management". Some board members with a "teenage" worldview make discrediting management decisions that damage the company's reputation, brand reputation and reputation for ownership.. All losses and all the negative goes to the owners!
If a politician has a teenage worldview - it is a guarantee of "hot" conflict!
- A politician with a "teenage" worldview launched a local war in 2008. People died, including own people. In the region quarreled local people for the next 25 years at least. Have the people chosen this politician, knowing that the country will be managed by a person with a “teenage” worldview? I don`t think so.
We cultivate rapists and murderers ourselves!
Causes of school massacres!
As you know, every child is in a hurry to become an adult and only children, elevating themselves above others, insult and humiliate others! Indeed adults in worldview people there is no need to rise, humiliating other! Each child’s natural physiological data, psyche, and mental abilities are different: someone is physically and psychologically hardy, someone is not; someone outwardly attractive, someone not very. Accordingly, the digestibility of children in different subjects at school is different, and it happens that inexperienced teachers begin to tease a student with poor performance in the presence of peers, thereby unknowingly humiliate him. Further, classmates, but in a more cruel form, begin to mock and humiliate in every way such a teenager, who, as a rule, is in addition from a dysfunctional family, where there are continuous scandals in the family! For a long period of time, the teenager receives a hail of ridicule peers about physiological data, mental abilities, social status (poor-rich)
, which he did not influence and did not choose from birth, cyberbullying (Internet bullying)
. Strength of action gives rise to counteraction. As a result, due to the lack of understanding, justice and hopelessness of his situation, the hunted child begins to hate all his surroundings: classmates because of constant bullying; teachers, who mostly do not care; parents because of the inability to influence the situation. The bowl of patience of the child's psyche overflows, it’s already impossible for the child to endure the accumulated stress and even more so to control and in a state of passion, the teenager brought to "edge" to which already everything is equal and there is nothing to lose, having hated all society, finds the father's hunting gun, brings it to school and shoots everyone who gets to it on a way! Yes, this is an extreme case - not everyone has guns at home, but if society still fails to "bring" a teenager to madness, he at least will grow in bitterness and for the rest of his life will live in hatred of people, the state, and society! Well, and then, where the life curve will lead .. And this is all our fault, as a society! We ourselves cultivate rapists and murderers! ..
Conflicts among football fans and martial arts fighters
In order to promote conflict-free thinking among football fans in the future, the development of "non-conflict"
communication tools for more than 220 world sports clubs. And for those involved in extreme sports and, in particular, martial arts, for fighters of mixed martial arts, for connoisseurs of boxing, kickboxing, muay thai, karate, aikido, judo, etc., for all those at whom the conflict on the street can end with death of the opponent and a criminal sentence, the development of conflict-free thinking is considered obligatory in shaping the fighter's worldview. (more info Extremepremium.com).
NOTE It will also be possible to develop conflict-free thinking in narrowly specialized professional and entertainment media: to prevent conflicts on the roads (communication tools for motorists and motorcyclists); for aggressive rappers and rockers, for club music lovers, for professional managers, journalists and art workers.
Is it possible to avoid regrets from casual dating?
Often people worry because of lost time on relationships with people with whom it was better not to intersect in life! "Conflict-Free thinking"
Technology and "non-conflict"
social media, where each of which for internal use there is a safe service of Dating and a safe ad service, where the absence of anonymous people and people with a non-united system of values allows you to form a transparent and trusting "eco-environment" in which the probability of building relationships with unfavorable people is minimized. This solution also allows users to avoid big regrets from casual acquaintances in the future!
The identification of "hypocrisy and false" in people and in relationships
It is important to warn that at first personal account holders will be distressed by the awareness of identifying a false, two-faced attitude towards themselves from others or friends. A person will, to put it mildly, be slightly disappointed with his environment. For example, will be identified: "fake" friends who do not care about you; pseudo "well-wishers" (in the eyes they say one thing, in the back another); hypocrites; people who do not share your value system; populists and "cheers" patriots. In other words, "small", cunning and insincere people who, using the trust of others, use you for their own benefit. Such people prefer to manipulate you, usually when you do not even know about it. Through the identification of such people need to safely go. The sooner a person reveals insincerity and filters out doubtful personalities from his environment, the better!
Similar, not the best qualities of character have always manifested themselves at a critical moment in a person’s life, especially in extreme conditions, when people find themselves in sudden, long, life-threatening and health-threatening circumstances. For example, in hot spots among the servicemen, when a person, finding himself in combat, immediately passed the test for "hypocrisy" and others immediately became clear who he really is! To hide it, as in the peaceful life makes the majority, impossible.
In people of extreme professions: pilots, submariners, officers of power structures, etc. often have been identified is not the "best" qualities of personality, insecurity and, as a consequence, the loss of confidence of colleagues. Such people were professionally filtered out. In a peaceful life, not all people's professions are associated with the risk to life and to identify the vile is not so easy. "Non-conflict"
social media, thanks to technology, are designed in such a way that they lay exclusively on that value system where hypocrisy will be obvious to others or similar people simply will not be in one together. This is the main essence of the technology "Conflict-Free Thinking™" - as soon as possible to identify and protect each other from dishonest people. Now there is no need to put a person in extreme conditions to arrange a test for "decency".
It is impossible to unite globally "Mankind", imposing "unions" or "blocks" on people!
Any sensible person is a supporter of the global unification of Mankind! But, I believe that it is impossible to artificially unite peoples, within the framework of imposing people of different cultures, religions, languages and identity, "unions" or "blocks", as well as a single virtual space or technical solution in the field of IT! No one will ever make any concessions! This will only lead to even greater global problems and conflicts! The only thing that can unite is a common worldview. A worldview based on conflict-free thinking, and it is only thinking that can unite people of different cultures, languages, religions and identities.
Since 2016, in order to promote conflict-free thinking and the prevention of interethnic conflicts, we have been working on prototyping and testing more than 70 national "non-conflict"
social media for virtually all nations of the world, including:«Americans», «Russians», «Ukrainians», «HanChinese», «Indians», «Jews», «Englishry», «French», «Germans», «Armenians», «Azerbaijanis» and many others
. The initial formation of conflict-free thinking is necessary strictly among people with the same value system, and therefore in the development of resources deliberate division on national, state, sports grounds, etc..
NOTE Only for the owners of personal accounts will have access to an internal, unifying messenger «PeopleChainMessenger.com» (chain of people with conflict-free thinking). The messenger works in every "non-conflict" social media. For communication of people from different ethnic groups, activation of access in the messenger will occur automatically after one year of using the system of blocksigns and achieving a total of >100 exhibited or received blocksigns. In simple words, until a person learns not to insult people, to communicate with representatives of other Nations will not!